Can You Show A Man Your Fears?
The short answer is NO.
Because a man doesn’t understand women he will often try to import your fears into his world, which automatically brings to the surface the “fixer” and, if you’ve ever had this type of talk with a guy, he doesn’t understand that you need to vent, that you just need to be heard, because he offers fixes, ways to get past your problem, when all you want is for him to listen.
To bring to the surface the type of guy you want to be able to listen to your problems and fears, you need to tell him up front “I don’t want to hear your answers I just want you to listen to…”
If the guy you’re with is ready for love, he will be able to listen to you, without fixing your problems or dismissing your fears.
This is commonly named as one of the “tests from women” that men get, but they are wrong about that.
This type of communication is mature, and shared between two loving people.
It’s needed to build a stable relationship because without this type of sharing there can be no relationship, each person is stuck in their own little world, unheard and with love and caring quickly fading away until the inevitable breakup.