Inside The Mind of a Man

Real Body Language of a Man

There has been, and always will be, a lot of chatter about deciphering a guy’s body language.

After all, as current wisdom goes, a guy’s body language will betray his hidden motives on a date, right? Well, not necessarily.

And I want to tell you that most of what you might learn about a guy’s body language is full of crap.

That’s right: body language training is bull-crap, bogus and often just totally wrong, 180 degrees off the mark.

The only effective body language that you can count on being more or less correct, depending on your own ability to interpret his body language, is what happens above his neck.

And that’s the truth for 90% of all women.
Included in the other 10% are professionally trained pschologists and the women that just don’t understand the cues that a guy’s body language can tell us.

Above the neck to the top of his head we have:
- lips – smiles ,frowns, grimaces, laughter, sadness, embarassment and more from the smile area
- eyes – smiling, frowning, consternation, doubt, curiosity and more from the eye area
- ears – redness, piqued interest, unhearing, disinterest and more from the ears and related interactions with hearing

Oh, you get it now, suddenly his head is of much more interest, isn’t it?

I’m only going to talk about one body part for this study of body langauge – his eyes.

His eyes are the windows into the soul, a great poet/philosopher said once. And I must agree… the eyes are full of intention and action. They seek for approval and green lights.

A guy’s eyes will betray his ulterior motives, his insincerity as well as his honesty and honorable intentions.

When a guy looks at you, is he carefully and completely checking you over and should his eyes stray, and linger, on your chest or midriff then he tells a tale of sexual conquest, or at the very least how you will match up on his trophy shelf.

But a man that can look you in the eyes, and hold your gaze as his eyes smile at you – he is a fine man indeed. Only a guy comfortable and honest with himself unless he’s trying to be a seductive player) will willingly hold your gaze and allow you unsheilded access to his inner emotions.

You can rate the guy’s eye language by watching him and scoring him one point for each time he looks clearly into your eyes and deducting one point for each time his gazes goes south or is caught by another woman in the room.

When the date comes to a close, if he’s worth another date (unless he totally tries to use a last grab on you and get some – a player) he’s in the positive point range.
And if he’s in the negative range, well, let him try but don’t expect much… guy’s like that even make poor choices for FWB partners.

It’s all in his eyes. Honest.

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