Does the ‘Poser You’ Scare Guys Off?
Friends
We’ve been “A Poser”.
And, more than likely, you’ve either been caught out, or you’ve given up, because ‘posing’ to be someone or something that you aren’t just didn’t work out.
Surprise! Cheating yourself on life doesn’t work. You either believe, or you don’t believe but you cannot pretend.
You have been, or you will be, found out.
Never mind that guys really aren’t that fast on the uptake. I’ve been fooled before and when the realization comes it’s usually too late for anything but the relationship to end.
You cannot change the sun rising in the east, why would you think that by attempting to be what you think a guy wants will make him want you any more?
Why?
Why can’t you just be yourself?
Because you don’t know who you are in the world you live in, that’s why!
What is your role? Where is your place? What do you do?
You have these unanswered questions because no one has told you what your options are.
Yes, you’ve been told you have options, and guy’s have been told to respect a woman’s choices, but that’s where the lesson ended.
No more info for you… So sad… You’re now on your own to figure things out.
Ask yourself this:
Are you a reflection of what your friends want to see in you or are you the driving force of what your friends see in themselves?
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