Why Men Hide their Romantic Emotions

Robert — Sat, 03 Oct 2009 18:45:09 +0000

Let me say first that this topic, why men hide their romantic emotions, is a huge topic. Many books have been written about this subject with blame being laid at the feet of mothers, bosses, older siblings, child abuse, and many more reasons have been investigated and found to be at the center as to why men don’t show their romantic emotions.

All that being said I will add my own ideas into the mix – men don’t show their romantic emotions because:
- they are afraid to open up
- their intense fear of rejection even causes insecurities when rejection is no longer an issue
- men don’t understand their emotional nature

The last reason is the strongest opinion I have: “men don’t understand their emotional nature”.

If you want to guide your man into understanding how he can be romantic, how he can explore his intimate feelings without resorting to charades and games, it’ll take some patience on your part.

Start romance slowly. I suggest having a pre-planned romantic night on a regular time, like the fourth Thursday of every month, or something similar. Don’t force him to live up to your romantic expectations right away, after all, many men think handing you a bunch of flowers is romance, so you have a lot of work to do.

Start simply with a nice candlelit dinner, home or out.
Eventually include romantic movies at home, snuggling up under a blanket.
You’ll want to introduce exotic massage eventually… some fun, intimate times you can share.

Those things go beyond the scope of this article but you do know where you can find out more… right here.

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Why Men Hide their Romantic Emotions